This story accommodates spoilers for Barbie
Who knew that “He’s simply Ken” was greater than a advertising joke? The Barbie film facilities, in fact, on its titular character performed by Margot Robbie. However Ken (Ryan Gosling) performs an necessary function within the drama as he wrangles with the notion that he’s lengthy been an adjunct in Barbie’s dream life greater than an equal accomplice. I’ll say the quiet half out loud: Despite the fact that this can be a film that leans closely into a female aesthetic and is, as writer-director Greta Gerwig informed me throughout an interview for TIME’s Barbie cover story, a movie at its core for moms and daughters, Ken has essentially the most intriguing and funniest half to play, providing a searing social commentary on trendy man’s insecurities dressed up in bubble-gum pink.
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Maybe we shouldn’t have anticipated much less from the mind behind Lady Bird and Little Women. Gerwig transforms a joke in regards to the forgettable male doll right into a meditation on the state of masculinity at a second when so many younger males, feeling disempowered, have discovered misguided solace within the patriarchy. It’s a B-plot that’s so compelling it usually outshines the somewhat dated girl-power mantras of Barbie’s A-plot.
Ken’s awakening
From the beginning of the movie, Ken smarts at Barbie’s small rejections. He seethes when she talks to different Kens, significantly the one performed by Simu Liu, whom he sees as a rival. He doesn’t have an actual job or dwelling or objective outdoors of Barbie. Then Ken leaves Barbieland, a feminist utopia, and enters the true world, the place males run, properly, every little thing. Briefly, Ken discovers the patriarchy and decides to carry it again to Barbieland, establishing his personal “Kendom.”
In a intelligent little bit of screenwriting, Ken cares extra in regards to the sartorial manifestations of the patriarchy than the patriarchy itself. He’s, in any case, a vogue doll. When he discovers that demolishing feminism entails greater than donning Sylvester Stallone-inspired fur coats, using horses, and redecorating Barbie’s Dreamhouse into what he dubs his Mojo Dojo Casa Home, he loses curiosity. He’s simply distracted by performing out warfare video games with the opposite Kens, permitting the Barbies take again Barbieland from the boys.
By the top of the film, Barbie and Ken must have a severe dialog about their relationship. Barbie makes it clear she’s not interested by Ken romantically and urges him to seek out his personal private passions. The finale not solely flips the traditional script on female-centric movies—through which a lady discovers she doesn’t want a person to seek out her inside energy (Legally Blonde, Eat Pray Love, and many others.)—however presents a commentary on how males must reassess their very own needs outdoors of their must each management and depend upon girls.
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A narrative that may resonate with males
Ken (Gosling) would love extra consideration from Barbie (Robbie)
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Throughout interviews for the duvet story on Barbie on this journal, producer David Heyman advised that males of all ages would discover resonance with Ken’s journey. “I believe Ryan is simple and so affecting within the movie. Individuals actually look after Ken even when he’s misguided,” he says. “I believe numerous boys and males will discover there’s lots to narrate to in Ken as they attempt to discover their place on this planet. Nevertheless it’s all completed with such a lightweight contact and such generosity, and Ryan is simply, I believe, extraordinary.”
Gosling does, certainly, pull off what might have bene a tough character. If Ken weren’t so ridiculous, he’d be threatening. Ken isn’t an incel precisely. Quick for “involuntary celibate,” incel is a time period that sure males use for themselves to explain a state the place they really feel rejected by girls, and resentful towards them in consequence. These males spend numerous time on web boards bashing feminists and eager for the times when girls didn’t work, males managed girls’s our bodies, and males’s mere incomes energy might all however “assure” them a sexual accomplice or spouse. These on-line misogynist teams are a breeding floor for poisonous language that has additionally spilled over into real-world violence.
Ken is extra mild-mannered than that. He doesn’t have the, um, elements down there to even actually perceive what intercourse is. When he tries to kiss Barbie goodnight, she stares at him blankly. When he asks to remain over, she asks innocently what they might do. He charmingly replies that he doesn’t know. However the implication is actually that Ken would actually desire if he had extra of Barbie’s consideration: He can by no means keep over as a result of Barbie tells him “each evening is ladies’ evening,” and whereas the Barbies stay within the dream homes, the Kens don’t appear to have their very own houses. (Possibly they stay on the seashore and that’s why Ken’s job is, nonsensically, “Seaside.”)
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When Ken enters the true world, individuals all of a sudden name him “sir” and ask for his recommendation or assist. Whereas males on Venice Seaside ogle Barbie, they deal with Ken with a sure diploma of respect. Ken is enthralled by this newfound energy. Sadly, he learns that he can’t simply stroll his manner right into a job as a banker or physician. He complains to at least one man in a enterprise go well with that his firm should not be “doing patriarchy proper” if a person with none {qualifications} can’t get a job. The businessman assures him that they are doing patriarchy appropriately, they only want to cover it higher than they used to. So Ken ultimately decides that if he can not take part within the patriarchy in the true world, he’ll carry the philosophy again to Barbieland, reworking it into the Kendom.
When Ken rapidly falls below the sway of the patriarchy and returns to Barbieland to evangelise its gospel, one can’t assist however consider sure male rights activists recruiting impressionable younger followers.
Male fragility onscreen, past Ken

Florence Pugh and Harry Types in Do not Fear Darling
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Gerwig isn’t the primary director to wrestle with this downside in recent times. Watching Barbie, I couldn’t assist however consider final yr’s Olivia Wilde film Don’t Fear Darling. These movies seemingly don’t have anything to do with each other. One’s a musical romp, the opposite a sci-fi impressed psychodrama.
However the third-act twist of Don’t Worry Darling—main spoilers forward for this fraught movie—is that Florence Pugh’s character isn’t really dwelling in a Fifties suburban utopia. She’s trapped in a simulation by her accomplice (Harry Types). Feeling emasculated by his spouse’s taxing job as a health care provider and his personal unemployment, Types’ character listens to a males’s rights podcast and falls below the affect of its host, performed by Chris Pine. Wilde says Pine’s character was inspired by Jordan Peterson, whom she describes as a “hero to the incel neighborhood.” The hypnotic podcast host convinces Types that each he and Pugh can be happier dwelling in a fantasy throwback to an period the place the boys labored and the ladies performed housewife. Pugh ultimately figures out the trick and comes into violent confrontation along with her captor.
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Different reveals and movies have explored comparable territory: The superb 2017 Black Mirror episode USS Callister reveals over the course of its runtime {that a} gifted however oft-mocked coder (Jesse Plemons) has stolen the DNA of the individuals in his life he resents (principally girls of colour) and compelled them right into a simulation the place he performs the captain of a Star Trek-like ship.
Emerald Fennell (who makes a cameo in Barbie) explored the simmering violence lurking beneath the floor of self-styled “good guys” in her 2020 thriller Promising Young Woman, even casting actors who cultivated these reputations in different tasks like Adam Brody (The O.C.) and Max Greenfield (New Woman) to drive dwelling the purpose to the viewers.
All of those movies draw a minimum of some inspiration from the unique Stepford Wives e-book (and its numerous movie and tv variations). The satirical feminist horror story chronicles a husband’s conspiracy to subjugate his working spouse after they transfer to a neighborhood stuffed with surprisingly robotic girls who stay to serve their spouses.
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The fantasy of discovering equilibrium

Ken (Kingsley Ben-Adir), Ken (Gosling), and Ken (Ncuti Gatwa)
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Ryan Gosling’s portrayal of Ken in Barbie is lighter and funnier than these extra severe takes on the resentful man who works to repress the ladies round him. Heyman is correct that we empathize with Ken when he’s ignored by Barbie and root for him to seek out his that means.
However at its root, his power—or “kenergy”—is just not dissimilar from the boys in these different tales. His emotions of emasculation manifest in reveals of aggressive habits, albeit satirical ones. Like Types in Don’t Fear Darling, he appears not simply resentful however with no objective in a world the place girls pursue their passions. Each films are deeply interested by the concept that trendy males really feel uncomfortable ceding energy to girls and what it means for his or her identities.
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What, ultimately, are girls to do about this male fragility? Barbie presents an advanced and never completely satisfying reply. The Barbies ultimately overthrow the Kendom and attain a detente with the Kens. They may give the Kens as a lot energy in Barbieland as girls have in the true world. Only a few judgeships, not half of them. And cupboard positions, however not the presidency.
It’s not precisely equality, nevertheless it’s a compromise. Whether or not such an equilibrium can or ought to be reached in the true world the movie doesn’t attempt to reply. Neither is it essentially the duty of a enjoyable musical romp to take action. In the long run, Ken, particularly, learns that he’s “Kenough” with out Barbie, a decision that performs higher as a pun than an edict for the trendy man.
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